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ULTIMATE FISTING GUIDE

Alphatribe presents the ultimate fisting guide by the world’s leading hole-stretching experts

As a teenager, you start by sticking a finger up your ass. Then you progress on to buying your first dildo or using a similar shaped tool from the workshop or kitchen in your hole. Then you lose your cherry with your first cock. But you want more, so you gravitate to bigger and bigger cocks and larger and larger toys. Then it’s double penetration before you aim for the ultimate fetish man’s goal, taking a fist inside your ring (or riding a wrist as it is known). From there you will progress on to punch fisting, double fisting, baseball bats, traffic cones, monkey wrenches, sportsmen’s feet, and the biggest toys in the world. Once you’ve produced the king of all rosebuds, a prolapse to be proud of, you can retire with your hole fully satisfied and a smile on your face – a sex life well lived!

To help any reader that has not made the jump from a 10-inch cock to his first ring-destroying fist, we have asked the world’s fisting experts to give us all the info you need to turn yourself into a walking talking gaping muppet in no time. The top  hole-stretchers in porn are Axel Abysse and Brian Bonds. Brian has shared his extensive fisting knowledge before (see Alphatribe 2).


Axel Abysse

Let’s start with the basics. Fisting is a sexual practice that involves the insertion of a hand in a vagina or a rectum, simply motivated by the quest for pleasure. Deep, wide, or punches – fisting comes in many shapes and flavours so there’s something for everyone to enjoy.

Despite the idea of pain, fisting is fundamentally not a sadomasochistic act. It requires the receiver’s body to be relaxed and willing. It brings beginners to new frontiers of joy. Those who experience orgasms through fisting usually get hooked and rarely go back to ‘regular’ sex. Because if feels that good, it never is a punishment.

The stretching discomfort that comes first can be avoided through progressive exploration. Communication between the partners is essential, whether it’s expressed with words, body language, or simply eye contact. The receiver and the giver are equals and a trusting connection between them is key to a successful hole opening. It can’t be rushed and never forced. During a session, the top should watch, listen, and be attentive to the fistee.

Because it requires a lot of preparation (cleaning can be time consuming), some will appreciate a fisting session occasionally. Others will adopt fisting as a way of life (training daily, playing several days in a row, joining community events such as Folsom in Berlin or San Francisco…). Whatever kind of fister we are, pleasure always come first. It is all about sharing. To give and spread the fun inside and around us. No place for judgment or competition.


My fisting life and preferences

For some, size counts. I do enjoy getting double-fisted, and sometimes swallow to the elbow (still working on making it easier every day). But my favourite is definitely getting heavily punched. Punching my gape, punching my prolapse, punching my lips… It feels too good.

I compulsively fist myself every day, everywhere I go. On a run in a park, I’ll stop in a corner to stuff myself and show it off. On a plane, when everyone’s asleep around, I wreck myself with a bottle of water. In the showers at the gym, I plunge the whole showerhead, water on full blast, into my loose hole until it doesn’t close anymore. And it’s better when someone is with me to fist it.

I love outdoor more than anything. When I can feel the breeze on my stretched hanging lips and the piss running between my legs, it makes me feel trashy and alive at the same time. Every morning I make sure I prepare myself for the day, leaving the house with a hole that is clean and ready to be used. I particularly enjoy being punched with a view, on a rooftop or a hill for example. And because I love to share it with the world, you can see all that in my videos.

I once had a spontaneous afternoon session on the beach in Thailand. The guy saw me on Recon and recognised me swimming near him. He got closer to me and I instantly understood he was into my kinks. I lost my Speedos and he started kissing me while fingering my hole. I’m loose, so I’m used to seawater entering my insides, but he stretched me, without lube, with ease. He was hot and talented, which helps a lot obviously. In only a few minutes he already had his whole closed fist inside me. Probably along with a few litres of salty water… which is quite painful!

The only way to get rid of the discomfort was to punch the water out, harder. So he did, once we found a safe spot on the beach, giving me a series of really intense orgasms. Heavenly!

Trent Bloom has always been one of my idols in the fisting porn world. I recently got to meet him and shoot a very hot scene with him. A dream came true (coming soon on AxelAbysse.com!).

Good toys can be expensive, but they’re worth it. Cheap toys are often made with terrible chemicals and many guys, including me, are allergic or have bad reactions such as a burning sensation. Among the best toy brands for stretching on your own at home are Mr Hankey’s and Bad Dragons. Very thick, soft, and smooth. But my favourite is Crackstuffers. Because blue is my favourite colour and they wreck my hole in the best way. I always leave their Thor in my bathroom so I can ride it every shower (crackstuffers.com).

For lube, I love K-lube, a powder you mix with water. You control the amount of powder to make it thicker or thinner as required. It’s transparent, doesn’t smell, and doesn’t turn bad after a few days (unlike J-lube).


Brian Bonds

I’d never even heard of fisting till I was 22 and was watching Boyhous on Cam4 take a massive 14-inch dildo all the way up his ass. I thought it was one of the hottest things I’d ever witnessed. Ever since then, I’ve been trying to take good-sized hands or bigger toys than the average dildo.

Before too long, I had a client that was also into fisting. He had small hands and was able to get the whole fist up inside me. I was quite freaked out when he was in all the way and told him to get it out. Fisting is not the easiest thing to do without a drink or a hit from a blunt or poppers.

But from then on, I just loved putting huge dildos up my ass from time to time. And now I love doing my fisting scenes for Club Inferno Dungeon.

Many guys into fisting can take an arm all the way down to the shoulder. I don’t understand where it goes, but I want to be able to do it the elbow someday. It’s been a personal goal. Going elbow-deep takes a lot of time and careful stretching. It also takes frequent practice. I don’t have quite as much practice as some friends.

I call myself a ‘wrister fister’. But being a wrister fister doesn’t mean that I’m not getting some good deep pleasure. I love getting punch fucked. And if my hole is opened up enough, a long and deep in and out is always amazing.

At least 30 percent of successful fisting is down to lube selection. The other 70 percent is made up of connection and patience. But when it comes to lube selection, the bottom is the one who should be in control of that. Hell, the bottom is in control of about 95 percent of any fisting session.

As a bottom, I do have some favourite lubes and/or lube types:

+ J-Lube
+ Elbow Grease desensitizing
+ Boy Butter
+ Crisco with some clove oil mixed in
+ Gun Oil silicone
+ Swiss Navy fisting cream
+ Astroglide
+ Cum
+ All-natural ass juice
+ Spit
+ Fisting Lube from Paris that burns as it numbs.

Some precautions that you must take with fisting mostly involve avoiding illnesses carried by blood. In fisting, the bottom can bleed quite a bit. If the top has a cut on his hand and the couple are fisting raw (which I LOVE) then there is a possible risk of spreading HIV or Hep C.

A lot of damage can can be done if neither partner knows much about what they are doing. I’ve shown many guys how to fist for the first time, and it’s just all about taking it slow. You can’t go for gold all in one because the bottom could get torn to shreds, and not in a hot way.

I’m definitely thinking about doing some fisting videos for my fan pages. I have three now: OnlyFans.com/BrianBondsXXX, JustFor.fans/BrianBondsXXX, and 4My.fans/Brian-Bonds. I have a couple big toy videos, but know I need to do more. If anything, just for my own personal practice.

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Written by Paul Stag

Paul is an international porn star and a long time editor for Alphatribe magazine.

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