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THE BEGINNERS GUIDE TO BDSM

Derek Kraft was recently sashed as the 2021 winner of MR LEATHER HAMBURG. He is very active in the gay fetish scene and an up and coming International fetish porn star. We are very proud at Alphatribe to have him writing for us imparting his expert knowledge on many areas starting with a basic pictorial guide easy to follow about BDSM.

 A MASTER CHOOSES A SLAVE OBEYS. 

I still remember when I started in the world of BDSM about 7 years ago. The feeling of being dominated and controlled by a master’s degree turned me on sexually. And so I decided to start the BDSM world. Master and Slave, the most common role-playing game, where the first rule is the trust of one in the other. There can be no successful session, if one does not trust the other. It is not about the submission of the slave to the master by force, but by the slave’s love for the master to please him in everything and make him feel proud of him and the master’s love for the slave to make him overcome his limits and always protect him. The master trains his slave starting from 0 at his whim and his needs. Everything must be agreed before, limits and taboos and they will be exceeded over time. That would roughly be the way to begin to understand BDSM. BDSM is considered a lifestyle, and it is an acronym that combines the initial letters of Bondage, Discipline, Domination, Submission, Submission, Masochism, 6 interrelated erotic modalities. Many times, erroneously, those who practice BDSM are considered as sick, because it is not possible to see its complexity and because it is not seen that BDSM, as an erotic practice, relies on the free and full consensus of both. 

Domination and Submission are complementary practices of power exchange. The person in the role of dominant acts according to her will and desire over the other person, but constantly subject to the consensus and limits established by the person who agrees to be dominated. 

Being submissive does not mean being an object that has no value, it does not mean being the doormat to trample because it has no more value, being submissive does not mean that you are weak because you cannot be a master. Being submissive means that you are strong enough to know what you want and to let yourself be carried away by those desires. Being submissive is the hardest part of the two and being submissive is not for the weak. 

Toys of all kinds enter the scene, dildos and plugs the most common. The necklaces, an external symbol of commitment between Dominant and Submissive and their brand as the property of the other. When you accept the position collar, you accept a serious and intentional relationship. The training collar implies an important feeling and commitment and here the limits of the submissive begin to be marked and now it begins to be a reflection of his master. The last one would be the ownership necklace, and it is the representation of the final stage of commitment and it means that there are many more common feelings and ideals and your intention to stay together and share your life. 

BASIC TYPES OF GAGS 

This is where the beautiful perversion of BDSM would begin. There are an infinity of them, with different shapes, models and colors, even vegan. It is one of the most important fetishes out there, both inside and outside of BDSM. Eroticism resides in the sound of the quiet screams of that salivation that is created in the mouth. 

BALL JAWS OR “MUST HAVE” 

It is a simple and recommended ball to start you and it is delicious for the master, to see his submissive Babe and he cannot speak. It can be the whole or bored solid ball. 

THE BIT GAG, which are used for the Pony. They are used for social events, since it allows the submissive to be exhibited before other teachers showing off his bearing and good walking. His digging comes from the rough appearance he has. 

There are other jaws that immobilize the mouth, and they are THE PANEL JAWS. It basically consists of a leather panel that covers the mouth and they usually have a ball in the middle, but not necessarily. 

THE RING JAWS are those that replace the ball with a central ring, usually metallic and very annoying, because they keep the mouth open. They are usually adjustable to open in different degrees 

THE SPIDER GAGS are JAWS with a central ring and 4 arms normally curved on the sides of the rings so it cannot close its mouth but the master can put anything in its mouth that you want to introduce. 

There are gags that are intended to assemble a second piece. They are usually used for routine housework, such as the duster, ashtray, or for the ingestion of liquids, such as urine and treated as living urinals. As the limits are exceeded, each and every one of the games complicates with more complicated gags and harsher sexual practices, as long as it is consensual by both parties. Many times it becomes an unsatisfied sexual practice because the master does not respect that prior agreement and it is thought that only the dominant party is the one who has the right to enjoy, or because the submissive has reached more advanced levels than he really is. . It must be based on the trust, respect and sincerity of both parties and without this there will never be a full and satisfactory relationship. 

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Written by Derek Kraft

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