Darkrooms are for frequent, casual, anonymous sex. If you cannot be away from your partner for an hour, then don’t waste everybody’s time in the fuck area. Cling to him at the bar instead. If you do decide to visit the sex space, agree to meet later. But go and have some fun! The most unapproachable guys in a darkroom are the ones going around as a pair or in a group. No-one can separate you from your buddies and no-one gets shagged. You are just taking up space and making others feel uncomfortable. You’re much more likely to get lucky if you’re alone.